Winning His Heart: Reasons Mom Was Right About Playing Hard to Get

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In the modern world of naked selfies and ‘sexting’ it’s easy to forget about being old-fashioned, but you need to remember how to find and keep Mr. Right. Part of finding the right one is playing hard to get and not ‘easy to get naked.’  Know the key ways to win his heart.

 

Who Are You?

 

Don’t give him a lot of immediate attention.  In fact, do your best to abstain from being available and ignore him.  Don’t call or text him back right away.  Let him know that you’re a busy lady with options.  Make him chase you.  It’s being a bit playful but you don’t want to appear desperate, which is worse.

 

Talk to the Hand

 

Some women go as far as saying “No” when first asked out on a date.  Of course, this could backfire, but if he is into you, then it’s likely that he’ll ask again.  Tell him that you’re busy and make him ask you again.  If you make him work hard at winning a date with you then he’ll better appreciate it happens.

 

I Love Myself

 

It’s understood that you won’t be good at loving others if you don’t love yourself.  Prioritize your life and address major life issues before you make time for dating.  It’s attractive to have your life in order and to love yourself.  Men want a woman who has self respect and loves herself.

 

We’re On My Time

 

Be sure that you come first.  It’s not being selfish but ensuring that you don’t let others dictate your life and events.  For example, if you have a commitment but he wants you to do something with him, stick to your original plan.  Guys respect girls who won’t modify their lives or plans.  Don’t put the lives of others before your own.  It’s a part of maintaining your edge and allure.

 

Word Is Bond

 

What do guys like in a woman?  Be upfront about your expectations and what you want out of life and him.  Stick to your word.  Know what you want and don’t waver from it.  If you have an issue with him, tell him about it, and let him know that you expect him to fix it.

 

Be One Half of a Couple

 

Couples don’t have to do everything together.  He needs to give you space and you should give him the same amount of freedom to engage in hobbies, go out with his friends, etc.  It’s healthy to be one half of a couple and maintain your individuality.  Remember that you were first attracted to each other as singles.  Be independent yet know when to compromise to make things work.

 

I Appreciate You

 

You should play hard to get, stick to your beliefs, and stay independent, yet don’t forget to praise him and lend him support.  Don’t take the small things for granted and try to live in the moment.  Point out his kind acts just as readily as you would tell him about something you don’t like.

 

I’m No Clinger

 

No guys like a ‘clinger,’ a girl who obviously likes a guy and continues to call and want to hang out with him.  If anything, let him seem like the clingy one.  Don’t call or text him just to say hello or to see what he’s doing.  Only contact him to make plans or if you have a reason.

 

Take It Slow

 

No guy respects a girl who immediately has sex with him.  Don’t use sex as a way to make a guy like you.  Take things slow and protect your body.  You have more than enough time for the relationship to flourish, so be patient and make him want you more.

 

I Want But Don’t Need a Man

 

If you’re both seeing other people at first, let him know that you don’t mind being single and having options.  Even if you’re hoping that things evolve into an exclusive relationship with him, let him know you value your independence and freedom.  Let him see that you enjoy your single life.

 

Dignity Not Games

 

Understand that the above advice is not an invitation to play with the mind of another.  These are suggestions that help you maintain your dignity in the beginning of a relationship.  Obviously, if you like him, you want him to feel the same.  Being vindictive or mean will not work.  Be playful without toying with a man’s mind.  Play a little bit of hard to get and win his heart.

 

Blake Anderson works as a relationship psychologist. He writes on the topic of love for a number of women’s lifestyle blogs and relationship websites.

Winning His Heart: Reasons Mom Was Right About Playing Hard to Get

 

In the modern world of naked selfies and ‘sexting’ it’s easy to forget about being old-fashioned, but you need to remember how to find and keep Mr. Right.  Part of finding the right one is playing hard to get and not ‘easy to get naked.’  Know the key ways to win his heart.

 

Who Are You?

 

Don’t give him a lot of immediate attention.  In fact, do your best to abstain from being available and ignore him.  Don’t call or text him back right away.  Let him know that you’re a busy lady with options.  Make him chase you.  It’s being a bit playful but you don’t want to appear desperate, which is worse.

 

Talk to the Hand

 

Some women go as far as saying “No” when first asked out on a date.  Of course, this could backfire, but if he is into you, then it’s likely that he’ll ask again.  Tell him that you’re busy and make him ask you again.  If you make him work hard at winning a date with you then he’ll better appreciate it happens.

 

I Love Myself

 

It’s understood that you won’t be good at loving others if you don’t love yourself.  Prioritize your life and address major life issues before you make time for dating.  It’s attractive to have your life in order and to love yourself.  Men want a woman who has self respect and loves herself.

 

We’re On My Time

 

Be sure that you come first.  It’s not being selfish but ensuring that you don’t let others dictate your life and events.  For example, if you have a commitment but he wants you to do something with him, stick to your original plan.  Guys respect girls who won’t modify their lives or plans.  Don’t put the lives of others before your own.  It’s a part of maintaining your edge and allure.

 

Word Is Bond

 

What do guys like in a woman?  Be upfront about your expectations and what you want out of life and him.  Stick to your word.  Know what you want and don’t waver from it.  If you have an issue with him, tell him about it, and let him know that you expect him to fix it.

 

Be One Half of a Couple

 

Couples don’t have to do everything together.  He needs to give you space and you should give him the same amount of freedom to engage in hobbies, go out with his friends, etc.  It’s healthy to be one half of a couple and maintain your individuality.  Remember that you were first attracted to each other as singles.  Be independent yet know when to compromise to make things work.

 

I Appreciate You

 

You should play hard to get, stick to your beliefs, and stay independent, yet don’t forget to praise him and lend him support.  Don’t take the small things for granted and try to live in the moment.  Point out his kind acts just as readily as you would tell him about something you don’t like.

 

I’m No Clinger

 

No guys like a ‘clinger,’ a girl who obviously likes a guy and continues to call and want to hang out with him.  If anything, let him seem like the clingy one.  Don’t call or text him just to say hello or to see what he’s doing.  Only contact him to make plans or if you have a reason.

 

Take It Slow

 

No guy respects a girl who immediately has sex with him.  Don’t use sex as a way to make a guy like you.  Take things slow and protect your body.  You have more than enough time for the relationship to flourish, so be patient and make him want you more.

 

I Want But Don’t Need a Man

 

If you’re both seeing other people at first, let him know that you don’t mind being single and having options.  Even if you’re hoping that things evolve into an exclusive relationship with him, let him know you value your independence and freedom.  Let him see that you enjoy your single life.

 

Dignity Not Games

 

Understand that the above advice is not an invitation to play with the mind of another.  These are suggestions that help you maintain your dignity in the beginning of a relationship.  Obviously, if you like him, you want him to feel the same.  Being vindictive or mean will not work.  Be playful without toying with a man’s mind.  Play a little bit of hard to get and win his heart.

 

Blake Anderson works as a relationship psychologist. He writes on the topic of love for a number of women’s lifestyle blogs and relationship websites.

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